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Saturday, July 21, 2012
  Channel 4 piece on refugees

Thanks to "liarpolicians" for the youtube recording.
 
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if the emotional damage that is done to the child by seperating them from their family is worse than the damage that WILL be experianced by leaving them as they be, then the child should NOT BE REMOVED.

The Risk of emotional damage law they act upon is a mockary to emotional damage in itself. The law creates emotional damage and it is an insult to the complete concept and idea behind emotional damage.

Since we cannot predict other peoples future and as we see everyday, it does always suprise us of the horrors and the blessings that occur in our world. The suprisers and the predictions.

With the unpredictability of human nature, nature itself and our complete life and existance. We cannot base such a drastic decission as to seperate a child from their family with the "Risk" of emotional damage. Only if this is a probable risk proven by facts. Not just a feared one by unpredictable/emotional/individual humans.

We do not understand everyones lives and it is impossible to assume that the small amount of time spent with families can determine the potential emotional risk that could occur. Unless there are clear facts.

Keeping the child with the family is +90% of the time going to cause the least emotional damage. This really does need to be understood and for people to make choices based on their hearts.

Also peoples different ideas and personal preference in bringing up their child needs to be valued and respected.

If the social services does fear risk of emotional damage then they should watch the family closely and give them much "help and support". to illiminate all risks and to give best advice.

Everyone has there bad times in life and we cannot seperate a child from their families everytime there is problems within the families.

The wise will just stay away frrom the system and the naive will get affected.

The naive should be educated and the real bad parents should be seaked out and looked for, while the good and morral families should be given much help and support, some trust and the basic benefit of the doubt. Given some respect that they have happy, healthy children now and there is no reason that this will not continue as it is .. unless worste case scenario does occur . however this scenario may never occur and could just be the fear of the social worker.

Different personalities and people will view every event from their own unique stand point. Alot of these people may not understand them selves what a real loving family is.

Respect should be given to law abiding people and help and support should be offered and maybe insisted upon if necessary. but children should not be seperated unless their is evidence that any damage will deffinetly occur if the child is left with its family. Not that there is a risk it will occur. There is always going to be a risk of emotional damage within every family. As life is unpredictable to the naked eye.
 
A Government cannot expect a rational and humane society when it is not a rational and humane government. The Government sets the example of what is sociably accepted, and within my situation I have experienced first hand for a year and a half the lack of love and care for the children by the social services. They are robotic and it is not realistic human behaviour. They are a unique group and they are mostly very disturbed people!!! Yet these disturbed people get to make huge choices on our families... it is true that I can see a lot of these social services are very egotistical. They have little experiance in life and with family... their family was not particularly loving. I can see they must not of recieved much love themselves or they would value that love and value it within the families they deal with.
 
The social services need to be educated on what really matters in life. What matters the most is that we have love around us and within us.

A loving family is what we want, not a robotic one.

The Social services and cafcas need to be educated on what a real loving family is. With real emotions and with real feelings.

They try and stop you expressing all the positive, they just find a reason to call it negative. Oh it has been so hard. I have not had the freedom to do anything with my daughter for 1.5 years apart from sit in a room and play while someone watches.

Even then they find problems with me... We are just their little guinnee pigs. Keep us in a cage and have a laugh and a joke. Me and Gracie belong to God and NOT the system. Set us free!!!!
 
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